The Boston Bowlings Come Home

Last weekend we were so excited to visit with the Boston Bowlings (Bob's family). Bob just graduated from Dental school in Boston. Since we have been so far apart we have only seen them a few times in the last few years. Soon they will be settling in Gridley and we will only be a 1 1/2 hour drive away...YEAH!! We are excited to spend more time with them and to watch Ava and Ezra play.

Ava and Ezra getting into the pool. It was cold!

Ava and Ezra have a great time splashing and playing. They stayed on the side of the pool most of the time.

Ava was excited to find a new sandbox at Papa & Nona Bowling's house. Rich and Ava played while we waited for Bob and family to return home.

Ava's "New Big Girl Bed"

We have been planning to transition Ava into the play room for awhile. We decided to take down the full/twin bunk bed ("Papa & Nona's bed") and buy Ava a new big girl bed. I talked about it with my mom and she offered with papa to buy Ava a bed. With this offer I started talking with Ava about it hoping to get her used to the idea. To my surprise she was excited and ready for the change. For the past several weeks she has been telling everyone she is going to get "a new big girl bed". She also kept saying, "Papa & Nona's bed is going down, down, and I get a new big girl bed." I wasn't expecting Ava to be gun-ho about the idea, so we weren't planning on getting the bed right away. We figured we would get it at the end of July, but Ava kept asking to go the store to buy her bed. I talked with my mom again and she was surprised too. We decided not to wait and made plans to go look at some beds at IKEA this past weekend.

Before we went to the store I looked up a couple beds online. I found two I liked and showed them to Ava. She didn't like the first one I showed her, but said she wanted to buy the other one. When we got to IKEA we looked at both beds and all agreed (including Ava) that we liked the white bed with 3 drawers the best. Since Papa & Nona had their Yukon we bought the bed.

As soon as we got home Rich & Papa started putting the bed together. Ava, Nona, and I went to Target to by some sheets. Ava looked at all the sheets and decided on a Zebra pattern. She also found a cute Minnie Mouse pillow that Nona decided to buy for her. Ava was so excited about these purchases and couldn't wait to get home and try her new bed.

When we returned home the men were still at work. They had made a lot of progress and were almost done. After a little while it was all put together except for the drawers. It was late and they worked so hard I said it could wait until the next day. Besides Ava wanted to help and that was something she could do with Rich.

The bed was together, the sheets were washed, the quilt was on, and everything was ready for Ava to give her bed a try. She was so excited and rolled around on her bed. Ava LOVES her bed! She has transitioned well and has slept through the nights. She likes to sleep in her new bed and play on it too. Something I thought would be a challenge has turned out to fun and exciting. It is wonderful to see the smile and joy on Ava's face.

THANKS PAPA & NONA KURZ!!

Ava's first night in her "new big girl bed".
Notice the drawers are missing.

This is Ava's Eric Carle "Brown Bear" quilt made by her Nona Carole. Now that she has a big bed she can use it.

Ava asleep in her new bed. She looks so small in the big bed. Ava and Rich finished putting the drawers together the next day. Now we just need to finish organizing her new room and move stuff over from the nursery.

Father's Day

I had a good Father's Day. I was able to spend the day with Lisa and Ava. Lisa prepared a nice meal for me. I have wanted her to make lamb for a while and she did for Father's Day. It was very good. The weather was nice, so we were able to spend time outside. It was good just to hang-out outside together.

Ava got me a nice surprise we can share together. She gave me the movie, "Cars", in Italian to watch together. She also gave me "The Cat in the Hat" in Italian for me to read to her. Lisa gave me a gift to encourage my desire to sculpt. I got a very nice set of chisels and tools for sculpting. Now I just need to get some stone, so I can get started.

The day was great and the best part was just being together with my family.

Ava & me by the tree in front of our house.

"Touch Noses"- Usually when we say "touch nose" we rub our noses together, but today Ava thought it was funny to poke my nose.

MMMMMM Lamb Shank!
Chocolate Chip Cookie Ice Scream Sandwiches (homemade)
Ava's gifts to meCarving SetAva saying, "Happy Papa's Day", to one of her Papas.Luca enjoying the lamb shank.
Happy Dog!

No news is not always good news!

I'm writing this post to answer the question that keeps coming up. Lately, everyone we know keeps asking, "have you heard anything?" (referring to the adoption). The answer is no. It has been a little over a year and we have not heard anything. We have not been contacted by any birth moms and we have no idea if we will.

The next thing that everyone wants to know is how we are handle it, so here is the answer. It is hard, but we are okay. We want another child and for Ava to have a sibling more than everything, but we know we have no control over it. Yes, it is difficult and painful, but we just keep on keeping on and focus on the blessing that Ava is. We have faith that what is right for our family will come to pass. We continue to pray, read the scriptures, and go to the temple to find the comfort and peace we need. It doesn't completely take away the longing for another child, but it makes the waiting bearable.

I know many of you wish you could help, but don't know what to do. We appreciate your love and support. We have been blessed with wonderful family and friends...thank you! Please just keep us in your thoughts and prayers. And, if you know anyone that is considering adoption please remember us and maybe put in a good word or two.

Visit With My Parents

This past week Ava, Luca, and I headed to my parents for a few days. We went to wish my dad a Happy Father's Day and to continue to work on a sowing project. We had a lot of fun while there, but I didn't get much sowing done. Instead we went shopping, rested, and cooked.

Ava had a blast in the kitchen with Nona. She made pancakes and learned how to crack an egg. She also made her own pizza and helped Nona make a cake. Ava liked licking the frosting spatula the best.

Ava got to hang out with Papa in the evenings. She enjoyed sharing dessert with him and snuggling while watching Wipeout. Unfortunately I didn't take any pictures with Ava and Papa. I don't know what I was thinking.

We met my brother for lunch at The Cheesecake Factory and Ava got this cute creation. I like going there because Ava loves bread and they always make this bread & banana butterfly for her. She loves it! Ava was excited to see how big Nona's strawberry patch was. She picked and ate a lot of strawberries. She did share a few with Papa, but ate the majority of them by herself.Making pancakes with Nona. Nona taught Ava how to crack an egg all by herself. It was pretty awesome!For dinner one night we had homemade pizza. Ava rolled out and topped her own pizza.

Little Pool

This week it was finally warm enough to bust out Ava's "Little Pool." Last month we got this pool at Kohl's for free. We had one of their spend $10 save $10 coupon and went to see what we could get. I planned on getting some cheap summer clothes, but Ava had a different plan. As soon as she saw this pool she grabbed it and carried it around the store. It was only $8, so we thought why not. We didn't realize how tiny it was until now. To make up the $10 we found a Mickey Mouse fork/spoon set and spent a couple dollars on both items.

Ava has been wanting to use the pool since she got it, but the weather has not cooperated. I'm not sure what was going on, but it has been cold up until the past week. We have had storms and freezing cold weather all through May and part of June. It was crazy, but I think that is all behind us. This week the weather was in the 80's and even hit the low 90's. Next week it is suppose to reach 100 degrees, so I'm sure Ava and I will be playing a lot in her "little pool".

Ava enjoys "jumping" into her pool. Ready, Get Set, Go...

Ava likes to make Luca get in the pool with her. She finds his ball and then throws it in the pool, so he has to get in to get it. She thinks it is so funny.

Ava is signing "more" because she doesn't want to get out. And yes, she is wearing her P.J.'s.

FHE With Friends

Last Monday for Family Home Evening (FHE) we had our friends over. We played Bocce ball and then had ice cream and cookies. It was fun and Ava enjoyed playing with Tommy and Corbin.

Ava draws Buzz

This week Ava drew more than just squiggly lines and circles, she drew Buzz Lightyear. She is always trying to get me to draw Buzz, but I tell her she has to wait for daddy because he is a much better artist. One day this week when she asked me I told her to draw Buzz and she did. I was pretty impressed and proud of her trying. I especially like the eyebrows. (Recently, she has really liked eyebrows.)

Answer

The answer to the question from the post entitled "Steal of a Deal" is 75 lbs. That's right the bricks weigh 75 lbs. After weighing them I felt much better about not being able to move them. After all that is more than half of what I weigh. It also makes what Rich did much more impressive. I'm happy to be married to a big, buff, tough man that is willing to cater to my vision. Thanks Rich!

We Finally Got It

We have been planning and saving to buy a new camera for over a year. We have been wanted to upgrade and decided to save to buy the Canon T2i. This camera came out last year and is 18 mega pixels. We started saving our amazon points and Rich started saving his medical survey money. It has taken us over a year to save and during this time the Canon T3i came out with some new features. Last month we saved enough money with the help of some anniversary gifts to purchase the camera. It is nice because over half of the camera was paid for with amazon points and survey money.

We are excited and have enjoyed the new purchase. Rich decided he wants to learn more about photography so he is going to use the old camera and we our going to use a book to make up our own class. I am excited to have the opportunity to share some of my knowledge and also refresh my skills as we learn together.

The first thing I took pictures of were my roses after it rained. I thought the water beads looked cool. I was impressed with the quality of the color and sharpness compared to our old 10 mega pixel camera. There definitely was a difference.

Farm Fresh To You

For a couple months now we have subscribed to Farm Fresh To You. It is an organic produce delivery service. The produce is from local organic farmers. We haven't been getting to the farmer's market as often, so this service is a nice substitute. We get a box delivered every other Friday filled with fruit and vegetables. It is always exciting to see what is in the box since it changes according to season. We have also tried a few different things like turnips and baby bok choy. We enjoyed both, especially the turnips. The service is also great because you can pick from a variety of boxes and sizes. You can also decide how often you want it delivered and can exclude things you don't like. So far we have enjoyed this service and probably continue getting it.

This is the produce we got delivered one week. We also got strawberries and blueberries, but they were in the fridge.

Steal of a Deal

Last weekend I found a great deal on Craig's list. It was just too good to pass up. As I was browsing the garden section I found large retaining wall bricks for $1 each. I was excited because we have been wanting to get some to go around our small pond for a couple years, but not wanting to spend the money. Rich and I talked about it and decided we couldn't pass up this deal. Fortunately, I was the second person to email. The gentleman had 150 bricks and the first person only wanted 110. It worked out perfectly because we only wanted 40-50 bricks.


That Saturday we made arrangements to pick up the bricks. It was raining most of the day, but we didn't care. It worked out that my parents were visiting, so we had access to their Yukon for just that day. We were really blessed during this project because it stopped raining just long enough to get the bricks loaded (took 1 1/2 hours). We were also happy to have my parents SUV because the bricks turned out to be much bigger and heavier than we anticipated. The 40, I mean 39 (I miss counted), bricks barely fit into the back of my parents Yukon and we never would have been able to get them in our Impala. Having my dad's help was also nice because I was unable to lift the bricks. It was a hard, messy, and back breaking pond, but for $40 it was definitely worth it.

These are the bricks unloaded on our back lawn. Rich was filthy dirty and a true champion for doing most of the work.

You might notice in the background half of the bark is gone. After several years we (mainly me) have decided we HATE it! It is too hard to keep nice with all the trees around. We can't use our blower because it blows the bark too. Also the neighborhood cats like to use it has a liter box. Our plan is to eventually fix up the area and put in pea gravel. It probably will be a year or two, but no bark is better than dirty, smelly bark.

The bricks are huge and heavy. I was frustrated because I couldn't move them and was not much help. Rich thought they weighed around 50lbs. I thought for sure I could move that much weight, so we decided to weigh them to find out the truth. WHAT DO YOU THINK THEY WEIGH? We were all wrong and under.

This Saturday we put the bricks around the pond. Again Rich did most of the work and he did a great job. It is not his dream Koi pond, but it looks so much nicer. The only problem is now Ava wants to climb on the bricks and play in the water.

Rich has 2 fish in the pond and a variety of plants. The tree is a curly willow. Rich just recently bought some Lotus seeds and sprouted them. Yesterday he planted them and placed them in the pond. We are excited to see if they will grow. (Lotus seeds=$5 for 5 seeds; Lotus plant=$50+ for one plant).

Gnocchi

Back in May Rich made gnocchi. We were trying to figure out what to do with some leftover sage and Rich said gnocchi is good with sage butter. We had all the ingredients, so he made a batch. It was tasty!

Memorial Day in Gridley

For Memorial Day we headed to Rich's parents for the day. We had a good day hanging out with the family even though it was cold and windy.

Rich took some dinner and cupcakes over to his grandpa.

Ava loved picking and eating cherries. She started shoving them in her mouth before Rich could get the pit out.

Here is a nice shot of a pit in her mouth.

Rich had to sweep her mouth to get the pits out. Eventually, Ava figured out how to spit the pits out. She also swallowed a few, but they just came out the next day.

This is the face of a happy girl.

While Ava napped Rich went on a critter hunt with Kobie, Bella, and Lily. They found bugs, snakes, and frogs.

Kobie is so funny. He found a snail shell and put a tiny frog inside it. I was amazed at how long the frog stayed inside.

When Ava woke up from her nap Rich showed her a red racer. Ava thought the snake was interesting, but didn't like holding it.

Even though it was cold the kids enjoyed playing with water balloons.

Ava couldn't break this one, but it got a leak and sprayed all over her. She didn't care. She loved it.

Ava attacking Rich with a water balloon.

I made butterfly cupcakes to share. It doesn't have anything to do with the holiday, but I just wanted to make them.